When my mother gave birth to me she didnt expect the baby that the nurse handed to her. My flaming red curls put everyone in shock for a second. Although we have a great deal of European heritage in my family we have no known family member with red hair. My mother has brown hair hair that was blonde in her childhood years and my father has plain mousy brown curly hair. Red hair is very unexpected especially for a Dominican kid. This definetly topped my aunts bluish-green eyes and blonde hair.
As a child i remember being called carrot head by the kids in school. I never thought about it much yeah I was a carrot head that was the only me I had ever known. When I would go out with my mother I remember people constantly stopping and asking questions like; "Is that her natural hair color." "Is she really your daughter?" or say things like "Wow thats really amazing your daughters hair is so beautiful." By the time I reached middle school I had the nickname of "Little Annie." My hair curly and red just like hers.
When I got to middle school and reached my pre-teen years my hair dyeing bonanza had started. My little Annie days were gone for a while. I experimented with almost every hair color possible. From highlights, fire engine red, sandy blonde, black, dark brown, and even hot pink streaks. I was like a chameleon changing who I was on a month to month basis. In high school my classmates waited attentively to see what my new hair color would be. When people asked ; "So what is your natural hair color?" Brown was my response. So many years living inside a hair dye box, had caused me to lose touch with my true red headed self.
One day looking through a family album I saw a picture of myself as a child. Atop my head flaming red curls. I came to a realization that caused me to change my life and perception of myself. Red is my hair color and I chose to embrace since then. I have spent my college years going natural and that means going back to red. Not the red that is in the contents of a hair dye box.
Now that Im older my hair is no longer the bright carrot color it used to be when I was a child. It has now darkened to a shade of aubrun. In bad light it looks light brown but under the perfect light my hair shines in all its red and natural glory. And when people ask what my natural hair color is I proudly say red.
Hello Paulina my name is Luis R. and I am also an O.G. My pure Dominican parents are both light skinned and have dark hair and raised not one but TWO gingers. I was born and raised in the Big Apple in (Dominican Central)Washington Heights. I grew up near and attended P.S 152 and I know all the trails you went through. I didn't like the attention I got and the constant denial of my heritage by others.
ReplyDeleteI later moved to Tampa and found that in high school I suddenly liked my uniqueness. I was never so proud of both my red hair and my Dominican Heritage . Soon right after high school my hair started to look blonde and thinned out, I had bold spots so I began shaving my head. I still rocked facial hair off and on. My REALLY gingery brother also lost his hair and I hate that I didn't appreciate it when I had it. Im married and my wife is white from Georgia and our daughter is a GINGER! I was shocked and delighted when we first met her.
That is the main reason I read your blog and hope that my baby is as cool and proud as you.
Gracias Luis!! My hair has gotten darker throughout the years but still red. When I tell people sometimes don't they don't believe me or take me for a white girl. When I was little in Washington Heights people thought I was a Jewish kid! I live in Houston now and Im super proud of everything I am. Including the freckles on my hands!! I hope that the day I have children they Are little gingers too! I bet your hija is beautiful!!
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